Let’s be very honest and say there are a lot of Australian men coming to meet beautiful Filipina girls and some are VERY serious about finding a real partner and a view to marry. There are of course so many who just want to come and PLAY and then expect the Filipina girls to be happy with their behaviour.
So, for those coming across to meet someone they have met on the internet or are serious about meeting a NICE lady, then you need to know how to treat a lady. Remember, if you are a gross person in Australia with awful habits and treat women bad, then you are NOT likely to meet a woman here who will put up with you. There are ladies who will put up with that, but that is not going to be love just mutual ways of her getting money and a good time and you getting a few days thinking you are a superman.
Most men here are older than the wife or girlfriend some 20 years plus in age difference. Not all Filipinas marry older men, of course, but they are much more open to it than Western women.
Let’s pretend a Western bachelor in his late 30’s or 40’s is thinking about settling down and getting married. His options in his home country may be limited to women who past their prime in terms of beauty and fertility even if he is successful and reasonably attractive. He won’t meet many women in their 20’s who are interested in romance with him unless he is rich and famous.
His options are much, much different in the Philippines. This same bachelor would probably have 19-year-old women telling him he is “guwapo” (handsome). Filipinas are especially attracted to Caucasian features, so this average-looking guy would find he has suddenly been promoted to rock-star status as far as his dating options go.
Some may argue Asian women are only attracted to Western dollars, not men. There are gold-diggers everywhere, but I think this is an unfair assessment of Filipinas. Money does play a role, but it does so in virtually every woman’s decision of whom to marry.
Asian women in general, understand the practical implications of marriage that the Western world largely ignores. An older man can offer stability and maturity while a younger woman will usually be more beautiful and fertile. A Western man may be able to offer a level of financial stability that an Asian woman could not find with a man in her own country.