Looking for a Filipina girlfriend? These are the things you need to know.
1. Filipinas are not “mail-order brides.”
This term (often used by those bitter about Westerners seeking foreign wives) is neither fair nor accurate. It’s true that in past decades men would buy mailing addresses of women in catalogues. But even then they weren’t “ordering” a wife. They were simply getting contact information and it was up to the woman to respond or ignore letters from long distance admirers.
Now the term is completely antiquated.
2. Filipinas are very open to dating and marrying older men.
Not all Filipinas marry older men, of course, but they are much more open to it than Western women.
Let’s pretend a Western bachelor in his late 30’s or 40’s is thinking about settling down and getting married. His options in his home country may be limited to women who past their prime in terms of beauty and fertility even if he is successful and reasonably attractive. He won’t meet many women in their 20’s who are interested in romance with him unless he is rich and famous.
His options are much, much different in the Philippines. This same bachelor would probably have 19-year-old women telling him he is “guwapo” (handsome). Filipinas are especially attracted to Caucasian features, so this average-looking guy would find he has suddenly been promoted to rock-star status as far as his dating options go.
3. Filipinas consider the practical implications of marriage.
Some may argue Asian women are only attracted to Western dollars, not men. There are gold-diggers everywhere. Money does play a role, but it does so in virtually every woman’s decision of whom to marry.
An older man can offer stability and maturity while a younger woman will usually be more beautiful and fertile. A Western man may be able to offer a level of financial stability that an Asian woman could not find with a man in her own country.
4. Filipinas are slim, petite, and attractive.
The obesity rates in the Asian countries I’ve been in are nowhere near the 50% you’d see in America. Most guys who visit the Philippines are simply blown away by the beauty of the women. Their dark hair, dark eyes, naturally tanned skin and slender figures are a welcome change of pace for many.
5. Filipinas tend to be conservative in terms of sexual values.
This is not to say that all women in the Philippines are virgins until they marry (though it is not unheard of), but most Filipinas tend to express their sexuality only within some kind of committed relationship.
6. Filipinas value family and motherhood.
Feminism and secularism has convinced Western women that the 20-something years are best spent climbing the corporate ladder and riding the sexual carousel. Women in the Philippines, by contrast, place a high value on becoming wives and mothers. Filipinas can and do work outside the home, but she’ll always consider her family the first priority.
7. Filipinas are proficient in English.
A typical woman in the Philippines speaks at least two or three languages: Tagalog/Filipino (the national language), English (taught starting in the elementary school years), and one or more local languages. I’ve had the opportunity to travel to other Asian countries and I found the people in the Philippines much easier to understand. This can be a big advantage if you are thinking about finding romance.
So if you are looking for a Filipina girlfriend make sure you got the right one.